So you?re a high school senior and it’s time to finalize plans for fall. Going to a reputable college or university is at the top of your list so you start the application process with several schools. This means that you have to keep your GPA up, get good scores on the SAT and ACT, fill out endless pages of forms accompanied with essays, not to mention sending in the required application fees. It’s seems a long wait before you start hearing back from the schools, and then it’s not good news. Your applications have all been rejected.
Unfortunately, rejection is a part of life, from relationships, to college application denial letters, to employment opportunities. Here are three things to consider that can keep you motivated as you work to see your dream of going to college turn to reality:
Talk To Your School Counselor
Feelings of rejection can be hard to handle. Meet with your school counselor to deal with your feelings and also to find out if you need to change your strategy. Maybe there were some questions on the applications that you could have answered a little differently. Or, maybe your counselor could appeal a college application denial if you think that the reasons for denial are not valid.
Consider a Two-Year Community College
Attending a community college and getting an associates degree is a great first step toward achieving your educational and career goals. You will be able to save a lot of money on the general courses that are typically required the first two years of college. It’s possible you will even be able to work while attending classes. You will then be in a better position to transfer to a four-year college or university for the more advanced courses specifically required for the degree you are working toward.
Take a Year Off
Taking a year off may be beneficial for you. You can work, intern, volunteer, travel, or take some classes before starting the application process again. Discuss with your counselor if it’s wise for you to take a year off as well as some things that you can do during that year to help make the college application process a little easier next time around.
Remember not to take your college application denial personally–you are not alone. Many colleges have limited space so only a relatively few out of hundreds of applications can be accepted. As you will discover throughout your life, there will be other times of rejection, so consider this a time of growing. Just don’t give up on your dreams, but keep pushing forward.
Even though rejection is not easy to take, keep a positive attitude as you may find there are other roads that can lead you to your educational goal. Whatever you decide to do, remember to stay focused on your ultimate goal. The choices you make now will affect the opportunities that may come to you later in life.